seandainya saya menjadi korban perkosaan. lalu hamil. apakah lantas saya diharuskan memelihara janin yang bahkan prosesnya pun tidak saya kehendaki sama sekali?
menghancurkan masa depan saya, itu jelas. hidup dengan AIB. dan sang anak yang dilahirkan pun akan menderita karena ia sesungguhnya unwanted, dan tidak jelas siapa ayahnya. sementara untuk mengurus akta kelahiran harus jelas siapa ayahnya.
selain itu, di mata keluarga, korban adalah suatu aib yang harus disembunyikan. dan bukannya kasihan, di mata masyarakat Indonesia yang berpandangan sempit ini, korban perkosaan malah dianggap sama hinanya dengan pelacur.
kalau saya? lebih baik aborsi. daripada saya berubah depresi lalu bunuh diri (ganjaran geus puguh neraka). atau jadi ibu terpaksa yang kerjanya menyiksa anak dan berteriak - teriak "kalau saja kamu anak haram sialan gak perlu lahir kedunia, hidup gua gak bakal kayak gini!".
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seandainya saya menjadi korban perkosaan. lalu hamil. apakah lantas saya diharuskan memelihara janin yang bahkan prosesnya pun tidak saya kehendaki sama sekali?
menghancurkan masa depan saya, itu jelas. hidup dengan AIB. dan sang anak yang dilahirkan pun akan menderita karena ia sesungguhnya unwanted, dan tidak jelas siapa ayahnya. sementara untuk mengurus akta kelahiran harus jelas siapa ayahnya.
selain itu, di mata keluarga, korban adalah suatu aib yang harus disembunyikan. dan bukannya kasihan, di mata masyarakat Indonesia yang berpandangan sempit ini, korban perkosaan malah dianggap sama hinanya dengan pelacur.
kalau saya? lebih baik aborsi. daripada saya berubah depresi lalu bunuh diri (ganjaran geus puguh neraka). atau jadi ibu terpaksa yang kerjanya menyiksa anak dan berteriak - teriak "kalau saja kamu anak haram sialan gak perlu lahir kedunia, hidup gua gak bakal kayak gini!".
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